20 year old woman dating a 40 year old man
There are a few things at play here. And not for the reasons you may think. An older woman does pose an alluring challenge for a younger man. Not only is she at her most confident, but this woman has got it together. She supports herself and is very in touch with her needs. Some younger men feel like they can learn from her and that she has enough life experience for both of them.
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Clearly they were getting serious and I was so pleased and excited. Until he arrived home with a year-old woman. I opened the door to stare into a visage nearly as lined as my own. My own smile froze. I then noticed we were also wearing similar outfits. Five minutes into some rather awkward small talk in the living room, I realised that we were reading the same book and had just been to the same exhibition.
I seemed to have much more in common with her than my son. I also admitted that I was going for gold in the Hypocrisy Olympics as the Grand Canyon between my beliefs and my behaviour yawned before me. My sister was finding the situation hilarious. The trouble is, we live in a facially prejudiced and ageist society. Think about it. Do you judge a woman on her looks? Men date women half their age and nobody raises a judgmental brow.
Just look at the flak directed at Macron for marrying a woman 24 years his senior. Donald Trump is 24 years older than Melania but their age difference rarely rates a mention. After all, we mature females have biology in our favour — the male of the species hits his sexual prime in his late teens; a woman in her late forties. Let me put it this way, 19 goes into 50 a hell of a lot more than 50 goes into The woman my year-old son brought home may have been 48, but she was also young at heart, attractive and intelligent.
But the experience did give me a brainwave. My lovely son Jules is on the autistic spectrum, which means girls his own age can sometimes find him too quirky, while older women have always been drawn to his wit and warmth. And for Jules, if a woman is witty and warm, age has always been irrelevant. As young autistic males tend not to be facially prejudiced and older, wiser females can think outside the neurotypical box, why not put them together?
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Older men often date younger women, but everyone can benefit when A year-old woman will have better luck messaging a year-old man those year-old women who really clean up with the year-old dudes. By age 70, from 40 to 60 percent of men have the condition. I couldn't possibly imagine being with a 20 yr old female, other then the obvious.
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Clearly they were getting serious and I was so pleased and excited. Until he arrived home with a year-old woman.
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I love men. It really is ALL about you, ladies! The vast majority of these guys are not the self-centered, testosterone-led, immature boys you met and maybe married in your 20s or 30s. They have matured. Thank goodness, right? The only way you can empathize is to know their side of the story.
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I had a game I liked to play with this younger guy, a hilarious invention of my own called "Is He Dead? What, after all, had he done? A lot of us have found ourselves attracted to somebody younger or older, and have been reluctant to act on it because of some perceived weirdness or taboo. This kind of culling is even easier now that dating sites let us whittle our options down to the year. I contend that as long as nobody is being willfully creepy I see you, guys in Ferrari hats , this kind of limitation is mega lame. I know many smoking-hot middle-aged people who are emotional teenagers. True, another factor is judgment from other people, who may see a year-old going to dinner with a year-old and make judgments about which one of them is drowning in student loan debt. Given the opportunity, your friends and strangers will judge you for being out with somebody who is too fat, too thin, to short, too Asian, too a stripper, whatever.
In college I studied Computer Science and forgot how to talk to women. As the only straight woman within reach, I soon became the de facto dating consultant for my male friends, despite my waning expertise.
When I was younger I got my heart broken by an older woman. No matter what I said, or what nice things I did for Karen, she was out of my league since I was younger.
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Some forums can only be seen by registered members. Originally Posted by professorsenator. Not so sure about that, ChessieMom. My age begins with the number 4 and I'd put my libido up for comparison to any twenty-something. Maybe when men hit their 60s most are on a downward slope, but there are lots of men in their 40's who are plenty ready to play. I haven't read this whole but I'll put my 3 cents in. I'm a 40 yrs old dude. I couldn't possibly imagine being with a 20 yr old female, other then the obvious reasons. I just don't think that they would have the life experience to hold my attention. I need to be able to talk to someone and have them understand things other than the latest boy bands.
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The real rules about how old and young you can date. According to this rule, society should accept a 50 year old man dating a 32 year old woman. A quick poll of my friends says otherwise. This made me wonder, does the creepiness rule actually reflect what is socially acceptable when it comes to age differences in dating? In other words, does the creepiness rule actually reflect what society finds…creepy? The internet is divided on the topic.
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