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View Full Version: Would you date a cop? Hey guys, I would really like your opinion on what you think about an undocumented person dating a police officer or maybe you even have dated one before?? I was always under the impression not to do it. I don't know if like my parents told me not to or if it was just always common sense for me. Do you think it is dangerous or simply just not allowed?
I feel like it would be required for the cops spouse to pass a background check or something, IDK maybe i'm crazy. If we break up and it ends on bad terms, he might feel the need more than a person who isn't in this line of work to report me to ICE? So I am asking this because one of my good friends who is also a cop wants to set me up with one of his fellow police officer buddies who he thinks is a really great guy.
He obviously has no idea about my status. I told him that "I was taking a break from dating right now and that I didn't have any days off work until Dec" LOL but really I am waiting to re-new my driver's license and have a photo ID before I start to date anyone. Not having a license or ID I think really screwed up some of my relationships.. I still got kind of excited and told him that it might be fun for us all to go out some time and his friend added me on FB and we have started to chat a little bit on there.
I've dated a cop. He knew about my status I told him I was Brazilian and he put it all together I guess it depends on you. I was always told to trust my instincts. I don't think it'd do you any harm if you went out and got to know him more, though. Just make sure YOU get to know him and not just go by what a friend says. Oh that's awesome: I hadn't met anyone else. No issues. I was glad he knew, though. I didn't have to come up with any silly excuses. It all depends on the individual.
Did you see the gay cop who had a relationship with the illegal immigrant? Shit blew up and it got cray. If the officer is ultimately a nice, understanding, and compassionate guy, then go for it. I understand one of your main concerns, though: That is a valid concern. I have a DREAMER friend who involved herself with a jerk who actually threatened to report her to immigration officials if she did not do certain things. However, the guy was not a cop.
Actually, dating a cop is something that will benefit you. You will stay protected and all. I say go for it! I'm not dating a cop but my bf is in the process of becoming one. Just get to know the guy first and then see what happens. Sure why not! My two older brothers want to eventually become officers. Sure, some are douches but not all. I don't think that him being a cop should be important at all.
This thread and many like it remind of this book I read. PS no offense to you at all OP! I heard about this, but I fortunately did not see those pictures. That was a very low thing to do. I try not to start new threads or even post that much because people are always going to be negative and question you on here. Don't beat yourself up girl. You did not do anything bad, just came up to ask about something which is what this forum is about. My honest advice to u is to be careful. Being a police officer is not like any other careers Don't meet him before u get DACA because right out of the bat he will start interrogating u about ur personal life because being cautious of people is part of their motto and they are really good at digging up info.
I really appreciate your response and opinion.
Dear Culturalist,I like a police officer. Is it bad to date him? So you want to sleep with the man, but you're worried it might be “bad,” eh? Bad can. There are all kinds of cops, from Dirty Harry to Officer Friendly. There are those who serve and protect and those who service and protect.
Who doesn't love a man in a uniform? Dating a cop can be one of the most thrilling experiences of your life. No doubt he has been around danger before, and more likely than not has a great sense of justice. He wears the uniform of one of the most respected and dangerous jobs in the entire world, and must constantly maintain his mental and physical strength to serve and protect his countrymen. Dating a cop will seem like a challenge at times, but can be extremely rewarding to one with the right personality.
This rainbow of emotions that you have has no problem with telling the world, with a daily dose of updated facebook statuses, of how unique and special this love truly is.
I've also heard it about firefighters. My ex was in law enforcement. The new guy I just met is a state trooper.
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Simone Paget Last updated: January 9, However, as much as dating a police officer may seem sexy, the reality is often more complicated than you might think. The intensity of their job can have differing effects on a relationship in both good and not so good ways.
Dating cops bad idea
Sometimes, even the strongest, most independent woman needs rescue from a scary situation. He was about to intervene when another, more qualified hero stepped in to save the day. Read the recollection word-for-word below to see that there are some good folks still out there in the world. What would you do if you overheard the conversation below? Thumbnail Photo: It is not going well. The girl finishes her appetizer really quickly, my guess is she wanted to get it over with. I know where you live. I get up. I may have had a slight temper in my youth.
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He majored in Psychologyand was a dedicated enforcer of the dating. Never had a problem with his "snapping". He was totally reliable that way. Sounds like you're concerned more with anger management issues - and those could cop unexpectedly in anyone - cop or not - if they're volatile types. It's been almost 6 years, she is in ida bad abusive relationship icea a kid, and she can't get out. I heard all this from another mutual female cop, because she is not allowed to have male friends. Good luck to ya!
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You're absolutely right, I would not date a cop, i think they are too weird and sometimes have an egoistic nature. I used to have a total crush on a guy I worked with who was a cop-in-training. I think he, like, volunteered with the local cops or something gross at the time. And now he's a legit cop who I'm convinced arrests people based solely on their race. Things always work out for the best, I guess. Thing about cops - average IQ nationwide is
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